Last updated: 26 July 2026
These terms cover your use of Up To You Ka (uptoyouka.com), a messenger that lets you write to real women in Thailand in your language while they read and reply in theirs. By creating an account you agree to them.
The two that matter most. Once she has replied to you, her messages stay readable forever, whether or not you are paying. And nobody is obliged to reply to you: these are real people, not a service that answers on demand.
You send a message in English. It reaches her in Thai. She replies in Thai and you read it in English. Translation is by ThaiPo, and the women you can write to are real people who linked their own accounts by choice and are all 18 or over. We pass messages between the two of you and translate them. That is the whole product.
You must be 18 or over to use Up To You Ka. You can sign in with an email address or a supported sign-in provider. Keep your details accurate and your password to yourself. One account per person.
When your free run ends, or if your subscription lapses, you lose the ability to send. You never lose the ability to read. Every message she has written to you stays visible to you for as long as your account exists. We will not put words a woman has already written behind a payment, at any price, for any reason.
The women here are people with jobs and lives, not staff answering a queue. Some reply quickly, some slowly, some never. We do not pay anyone to reply, we do not write replies on anyone's behalf, and there is no bot pretending to be a person. A subscription buys you the ability to send and to have your messages translated. It does not buy her attention, and no refund is owed because someone did not write back.
Be a person she would want to hear from. Do not send threats, abuse, sexual content to someone who has not invited it, or anything illegal. Do not use the service to arrange anything illegal, do not pressure anyone for their private contact details, and do not keep messaging someone who has stopped replying. Do not use the service for advertising, recruitment or spam of any kind, and do not attempt to probe, scrape or overload it.
We read reports from the women's side, and we act on them. Accounts that behave this way are suspended without a refund.
Anyone here can withdraw at any time by telling the venue's management, and when she does she is removed and stays removed. Conversations with her end at that point. This is not something we can or would override, and it can happen mid-conversation.
Translation is done by AI. It can be inaccurate, miss tone, or make something read more or less strongly than it was meant. Treat it as a good everyday translation rather than a precise one, and do not rely on it for anything legal, medical, financial or urgent. We are not responsible for misunderstandings a translation causes.
What you write stays yours. You give us permission to store, translate and deliver it, which is what the service is, and nothing beyond that. What we keep and for how long is in the privacy policy. You are responsible for what you send.
You can stop at any time, cancel your subscription from your account, or ask us to delete your account and its messages through the contact page. We may suspend or close an account that breaks these terms, and where it is reasonable to do so we will warn you first.
The service is provided as it is, without warranties of any kind. To the extent the law allows, our total liability for any claim relating to the service is limited to what you paid in the 12 months before the claim. Nothing here removes rights your consumer law gives you that cannot be waived.
We may change the service and these terms. If a change matters to you we will update this page and the date at the top, and say so in the app before it takes effect. Continuing to use the service after that means you accept the new terms.
These terms are governed by the laws of Thailand.
Anything at all, use the contact page and a person will read it.